Think of friendships in terms of TFP. The age range here is huge, we're from varying backgrounds and income brackets, some into porn, some into horses, some Christian, some not.
But somehow we learn from the voice and experience of one another. Everyone's got something to offer. We only have one simple thing in common: brilliance
Don't try so hard to fit in, just be true to yourself, no matter how cliche that is. There are lots of people who don't bother with the borders. You'll find them as long as you give people a chance.