Love is a gamble at the best of times, even when you find that person you feel you mesh with 100%.
You step up to the table, you roll the dice, and see what comes up.
Here's the trick, though--be happy with yourself and being single BEFORE you take the gamble. For one, it's easier to take the chance when you're happy, period, and for two, it's easier to handle things when they go wrong if you're okay being alone. When you are comfortable being single, you are less willing to settle for crappy relationships that do nothing but waste time, because you are comfortable being by yourself.
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If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau
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