It's all been said. I can't help but wonder why he was with her to start with.
Someone very close to me was exactly like that. Her guy sent her into therapy. They've had some rocky times, but supposedly she's getting better. I do know that her first trusting relationship ended when she found out the guy she'd been with all along had been screwing his ex throughout their relationship. She took this baggage with her into every relationship for years, until this one guy yelled STOP!
If the guy doesn't need the drama and doesn't love her, let her go.
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We are always more anxious to be distinguished for a talent which we do not possess, than to be praised for the fifteen which we do possess.
Mark Twain
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