I've been known to enjoy giving a facial from time to time, and most of the girls I've been with either haven't objected, or have actively enjoyed them. Maybe it's a little degrading, but I think it's probably "dirty in a good way." I once had a girlfriend who was occasionally seized by the fancy to send me out into the world with a little dab of her juices behind my ears and on my wrists: she said she was "marking her turf." I obliged happily: I don't know if it kept off other girls, but it usually kept me fairly distracted until the scent wore off. In any case, I figure that's kind of the same thing at work as men wanting to give facials, except men are less public about it (except when we post it on the internet, I guess).
I don't necessarily get the dudes for whom this is a major fetish, but from time to time, as part of the usual spectrum of a varied sex life? Why not?
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Dull sublunary lovers love,
Whose soul is sense, cannot admit
Absence, because it doth remove
That thing which elemented it.
(From "A Valediction: Forbidding Mourning" by John Donne)
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