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Originally posted by Daval
I think you should go see a counsellor about your massive inferiority and insecurity problems and a marriage counsellor about your trust issues.
If you are so insecure in your relationship that you could not deal with your husband thinking someone is attractive then you have massive problems.
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Hmmm... a bit on the abrasive side, but I think the point is the right one.
There's lots to say about it like,"just because you are on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu."
IMO my wife and I talk constantly about "beautiful people" that we walk past and such. She knows at the end of the day that I'm going home with her and laying my head down next to hers. She's very secure in herself, as am I. It would suck yes, if she ran off with someone else, but because she thinks that Ewan McGregor is hot, I'm supposed to induldge her in her fantasy not in her reality.
thinking someone is attractive and wanting to get busy with them are a far cry from actually trying to court and bed them.
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