Rococo

I've been with my wife for 9 years now. married 2 and a half years. she was my 3rd, i was her first. during the 9 year period we both got the itch to try something else, i fell in love with this one chick, thought she was the one. found out she had been with somewhere between 20-30 guys, she had threesomes, god knows what else. I didn't think it would be a big deal but man, it felt like shit knowing she'd been with that many, and she was only 27.

the biggest problem was the baggage she brought along. Bullshit stories about abusive ex's, unavailable men, she kept in touch with some of the ex's despite my requests etc. gave me a nice case of HPV to top it all off. Anyways, that girl made me go crazy, oh and she slit her arm with a knife one night when i found out she was communicating with an ex and tried to dump her. a couple more months of insanity and my current wife and I were back together.

its much calmer now. and it sure is nice not to have to think of her having sex with dozens of men.

so i wouldn't say virginity is key, since it can lead to people cheating or at least wanting to try something else. but lots of partners whether they meant something or not is probably the biggest turn-off i can imagine about a girl, long-term or not.

if you do end up finding someone who is a virgin, i can't figure out how that can be a turn off. sex is not rocket science. if you're such a champ in bed then show her a thing or two. if you love each other he/she will eventually learn what to do to make sex enjoyable for you. i'd rather know i'm getting great head from a girl who learned from me rather than some other random dudes.