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Original poster:
My own thoughts when reading your OP, and without knowing any other information (in other words almost blindly), are that she did it because she didn't care enough. She behaved callously because she didn't want to confront hurting you. She wasn't as invested as she thought she was. She lied to you or was mistaken. It doesn't matter though really, does it? I'm sure it had nothing to do with you. It was her thing, and you just got in the way. Let the girl go and get going. The best and worst thing thing Intellectual martyr taught me was detachment. It has become my mantra, sort of. At least for the time being. We'll see.
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