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high_jinx · 01-23-2008, 12:48 PM

I spent a large part of my youth in the electro/underground/rave scene, and used to love to go out dancing.

i also spent a large part of my youth dating, and playing the field, and having fun out with girls.

however, i never really combined the 2.

dancing seems like a very individual thing to me. i used to dance for hours when i went to see dj's. and sure, there'd be moments where i connected with someone on the floor, or a group of people would pick up on the same vibe and share it... but these moments were for me fleeting, and i'd always end up either retreating back in my own world, or taking a girl off the dance floor to go talk and hang out and take a break.

so my Questions to TFP on this are...

How do you feel about dancing?

How do you dance as a couple? How long can you dance with your partner if you're in a relationship, and what sustains it?

If you go "out dancing" for a whole evening, how long does it last for you and what does it entail?

any general phiosophical comments or stories would be appreciated too... i'd just like to hear others experience with this.

01-23-2008, 12:48 PM	#1 (permalink)
high_jinx Psycho Location: venice beach, ca	Musings on Dancing... I spent a large part of my youth in the electro/underground/rave scene, and used to love to go out dancing. i also spent a large part of my youth dating, and playing the field, and having fun out with girls. however, i never really combined the 2. dancing seems like a very individual thing to me. i used to dance for hours when i went to see dj's. and sure, there'd be moments where i connected with someone on the floor, or a group of people would pick up on the same vibe and share it... but these moments were for me fleeting, and i'd always end up either retreating back in my own world, or taking a girl off the dance floor to go talk and hang out and take a break. so my Questions to TFP on this are... How do you feel about dancing? How do you dance as a couple? How long can you dance with your partner if you're in a relationship, and what sustains it? If you go "out dancing" for a whole evening, how long does it last for you and what does it entail? any general phiosophical comments or stories would be appreciated too... i'd just like to hear others experience with this. __________________ -my phobia drowned while i was gettin down.