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Originally Posted by Jenny_Lyte
I hate being judgmental, especially towards people I don't know, but I too think your girlfriend might be slightly off her rocker. But if that's the case, it's not her fault. You have to ask yourself if the good times are good enough that you want to help her work through the bad times. If the good outweighs the bad, don't give up on her. If it's the other way around, it might be time to move on.
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Speaking as a liberal with conservative tendencies, whose fault is it then? If she's off her rocker and CHOOSES to live her life in a solitary, untrusting manner, then who is to blame? There is a level of personal responsibility here but you have said "it's not her fault", this confuses me.
Btw: not only am I liberal but I am deeply involved in the mental health community so I have experience working with people like this, I guess I am trying to establish that I don't have a bias regarding the mentally unstable. I am just confused by that statement and would like you to clarify.