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Ok, well, I think she may be nuts too.
But I always like to take a turn and say - what's her side of the story?
Either she is pretty nuts, and totally paranoid, or you have done something prior that gets her this way. I mean, taking her cats to work because she's afraid you might kill them? Are you a violent person at all? Do you like her cats?
Also, the jumping straight to cheating thing. Have you cheated on her before? Has she been cheated on badly before?
She is probably a very insecure person, and maybe one of those ladies who doesn't abide porn. The fact that she found some photos on your computer (which also means she was rifling through your stuff and that's a separate issue altogether!), and they're of sex with an ex, must have been pretty horrible for her...
In the end, maybe you guys aren't compatible and she was just looking for an excuse to cut you loose. It all sounds really wacky to me...I mean, you were with her three years but you describe her as "mentally and emotionally unstable"...I don't know...
Overall, I'm tending towards my initial impression - that it's not normal and you're better off apart.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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