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Originally Posted by allaboutmusic
It's all to do with your self-perception, you hear all the time about stunningly attractive people who can't bear to look themselves in the mirror. Like a good friend of mine who avoids mirrors for this reason, but turns heads whenever we are out together. It's an inner issues thing.
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Exactly. People see what you project. If you feel ugly, your body posture and language will reflect that and you will be seen as insecure and less attractive. If, instead, you wear something that picks you up and hold yourself with confidence, you'll be seen as self-assured and attractive.
What makes you feel like that? You've got some issues you're dealing with that have run you through the ringer. Work on what's going on inside your head as a result.
Never compare yourself with someone else's ideal of the right stuff. Be the best "you" and proud of who you are and you will project confidence and good looks.