Robot: Many of the relationship problems here that elicit the response you speak of, at least those I recall off the top of my head, typically refer to couples who are unmarried.
Now ask yourself: would you have thought it wise or been optimistic enough to have continued your relationship after having been "cheated on" twice if she were your girlfriend and not your wife?
Maybe the members of this board are pessimistic in that they feel the bulk of these relationships shouldn't be saved. Then again, maybe they're optimistic that a far more suitable, drama-free relationship can be found with at least one other person out of those 6.6 billion that occupy the same space.
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