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Originally Posted by robot_parade
So, I've noticed something in my years at TFP, and I wonder if anyone else has thoughts on the matter.
I think that, when people post regarding a situation with their significant other, where things are going badly, that a certain segment, perhaps even a majority, of TFPers tend to say 'move on!'. In other words, when things are going badly in a relationship, the consensus is to quit that relationship, and find another.
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I think the issue is that by the time people feel the need to post, any sort of real salvaging potential has past.
This isn't about things going badly, but that things have been bad for a LONG time, the poster has made various horrible choices, and now they are asking us to help them save a train wreck.
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Originally Posted by TotalMILF
Usually by the time a poster brings their "relationship problems" to this forum it's already far beyond repair and they're just looking for someone to validate their desire to leave the relationship. When we say "get out" it makes them feel better about doing something they were almost assuredly going to do anyway.
*shrug* Whatever works, I guess.
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Yea what she said (read it after I posted)