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Wow, this is a tough situation.
When my brother died a few years ago, hubby and I nearly got a divorce. I went to a psychologist and she told me that marital strife is to be expected during traumatic times like death. Your wife may not be through the grieving process, and like ratbastid said, she may be angry with you relating to it.
However, communication is essential (who hasn't heard that on TFP before?). I'm very stubborn. I'm NOT a good communicator. I'm discovering that I don't like that part of myself and am actively working on changing it. Until your wife decides that she wants to communicate...I don't think she will. If you no longer have the patience for it, I wouldn't blame you a bit. I wouldn't want to live with someone like me. Good luck to you.
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