One question before I formulate an answer. How much of this have you said to her? My first response to people that dump on me like that would be "I'm not the reason you grandfather died so when the hell are you treating me like it?" Calling her out on this, hopefully with more tact then I would, is the first thing you should do. If you were close with the man in any way before he died, simply stating that you miss him to next time she goes off may steer things in the right direction. If you can't work this on your own, get counseling, or get a lawyer.
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Bad spellers of the world untie!!!
I am the one you warned me of
I seem to have misplaced the bullet with your name on it, but I have a whole box addressed to occupant.
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