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fluster · 01-18-2008, 01:56 AM

Having recently separated and now in a new relationship it struck me that there is SO much about sex that you just can't be taught. Or more importantly, things that you just don't find written in books or even hear about via word of mouth.

I thought it might be fun(and somewhat humorous) if both sexes could share some of things they have learnt over the years. Don't be afraid to mention something that seems glaringly obvious because I won't be! Of course a lot of what you have learned may only apply to you but that is ok. Let us know anyway.

Here's some of mine (obviously these are from a man's point of view!):-

1. Boobs have different weight even if they are similar sized (having been with a girl with big boobs I was kinda of shocked when I was with another girl with similar sized boobs that were twice as heavy!)

2. Different positions feel different with different people (should be obvious I know).

3. All vagina's aren't in exactly the same spot. (A position that is possible with one person may not be with an other. Obviously the person's shape etc. comes into play as well).

4. Sex feels different at different times of the month (I'm putting this one down to the woman's natural lubricant changing in viscocity).

5. Good looking does not necessarily equal good sex.

6. There is a big difference between sex and love making.

7. Going without sex for quite some time seems to desensitize my dick. (It feels better the second time after a long period of no action.)

8. Other erogenous areas can really effect the enjoyment of sex. (For me just above the pubic bone area is actually quite sensitive when close to orgasm).

9. A tighter vagina does not necessarily equal more enjoyable sex. (I learnt this one after my partner had a child).

10. Women with smaller breasts seem to enjoy nipple stimulation more (I'd be interested in others opinions on this one. Every small breasted woman I have been with has loved nipple stimulation and all the bigger breasted women weren't keen on it!)

That'll do for now. I'll post more as I think of them.

01-18-2008, 01:56 AM	#1 (permalink)
fluster Psycho Location: Down Under	Things you've learnt about sex Having recently separated and now in a new relationship it struck me that there is SO much about sex that you just can't be taught. Or more importantly, things that you just don't find written in books or even hear about via word of mouth. I thought it might be fun(and somewhat humorous) if both sexes could share some of things they have learnt over the years. Don't be afraid to mention something that seems glaringly obvious because I won't be! Of course a lot of what you have learned may only apply to you but that is ok. Let us know anyway. Here's some of mine (obviously these are from a man's point of view!):- 1. Boobs have different weight even if they are similar sized (having been with a girl with big boobs I was kinda of shocked when I was with another girl with similar sized boobs that were twice as heavy!) 2. Different positions feel different with different people (should be obvious I know). 3. All vagina's aren't in exactly the same spot. (A position that is possible with one person may not be with an other. Obviously the person's shape etc. comes into play as well). 4. Sex feels different at different times of the month (I'm putting this one down to the woman's natural lubricant changing in viscocity). 5. Good looking does not necessarily equal good sex. 6. There is a big difference between sex and love making. 7. Going without sex for quite some time seems to desensitize my dick. (It feels better the second time after a long period of no action.) 8. Other erogenous areas can really effect the enjoyment of sex. (For me just above the pubic bone area is actually quite sensitive when close to orgasm). 9. A tighter vagina does not necessarily equal more enjoyable sex. (I learnt this one after my partner had a child). 10. Women with smaller breasts seem to enjoy nipple stimulation more (I'd be interested in others opinions on this one. Every small breasted woman I have been with has loved nipple stimulation and all the bigger breasted women weren't keen on it!) That'll do for now. I'll post more as I think of them.