boobmandan

Hey all - time to share my story. My girlfriend and I have been dating for close to two years now, and we're "stuck" on handjobs and fingering. She seems uncomfortable with giving head. It's hard to describe how she feels, since she won't come out and fully tell me. She thinks it's strange, and she's not one for trying new things, unfortunately. I've gotten her to lick around a bit, but she's still hesitant to put my penis in her mouth. We're pretty intimate (a bit less frequent than I'd like, but that's a different thing altogether), and have a very close relationship. The sexual aspect is what's holding it back, though. She also won't let me perform oral on her... She says she's very uncomfortable with her "area," even though she's admitted to me that she's masturbated in the past (very infrequently, and I don't think she's done it at all since we've been dating).

I could live with the fact that we haven't got to the oral stage if she was willing to have sex. We're in a very committed and close relationship, like I said, and we're both virgins. She had a bad experience in the past - her cousin was very promiscuous in high school and got pregnant/had miscarriages twice. So I think she's afraid of getting pregnant, even though she's on birth control (the patch), and I would be more than willing to use a condom. I think the #1 issue is that she's uncomfortable with her vagina. I haven't even seen it since we've been dating, and I think that's a bit ..abnormal after two years. So I am getting more and more frustrated as time goes on, and I'm just not sure what to do. Any suggestions?