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Originally Posted by Aerobit
So she's here and she has a good job, shes going to school everything is great. in this time i find that i am truly in love with this girl and her daughter. so we had been together for about 2yrs so i decided to ask "the question" and she said yes. this was the greatest time in my life so far. then spring break came around and E wanted us to go to SXSW in austin, for the people that don't know its like a week long concert kinda like a mini woodstock. well i couldn't go because i couldn't get away from work so she packed up with afew friends and off they went. she called every night and we talked for hours, and about Wednesday she called while being extremely blitzed and kept talking to everyone she was with, so i just told her "how about you call me later when your not so busy" and the fight was on. well that night ended and we were no longer together due to her drunken decision. well spring break ends she comes home and within a week of trying to work things out she was gone to find her own place.
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Perhaps I just can't read but who started this fight, who tried to reconcile the mistake, and who was the person that decided she should leave? It sounds like she had a rough time growing up but then overcame that and got her life together only to have a silly mistake while being drunk screw it all up. From what I read in that she seems to deserve a second chance.
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Originally Posted by Aerobit
well shes gone and i learn that her new place is with a mutual friend that she went to SXSW with. this fat fuck that i thought was a good friend took my place almost over night. so with the new arrangement E thought that we could still be friends anyway, well thats just not the way my mind works so i took her everything that she had ever givin me and threw it in the front yard of her new house. so she calls the next day to try and reconcile but that just wasn't an option, so i told her to have a great life with her new man...
well 6 months later which brings us to today, there hasn't been any contact between the two of us, she tried calling a few times and i just avoided it all together until last week on my birthday when i got a call from a strange number, i answer it and its E calling to wish me a happy b-day. taken completely by surprise from the call i couldn't come up with a good excuse not to go out for dinner when the offer was made. so i wont lie dinner was good and so was getting to spend time with E and her daughter.
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Again it sounds like you where being a douchebag to her. Your fat fuck of a friend was obviously the rebound guy (and a damn convenient one at that) and her continued contact with you shows that she has feelings for you still. You decided though that because one night she got drunk & called you it was best to just ignore her for six months.
Perhaps I'm wrong in all this and this girl is the worst thing to happen since a nuclear winter, but from what I read I see no reason why you shouldn't give her a chance again. You obviously still have feelings for you and her for you, a lifetime of potential happiness seems like a high price to pay for a drunk phone call.