I'm sorry to hear that your experience was and still is painful for you.
Everyone has their own timeframe for "getting over" different emotional attachments. I don't believe anyone would deny you that. But sometimes we can heal even more quickly by realizing we can be constructive and regain our self-worth while we help others, despite our own pain.
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We are always more anxious to be distinguished for a talent which we do not possess, than to be praised for the fifteen which we do possess.
Mark Twain
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