neflyte

I'm waiting patiently for the procedure to do just that. Perhaps it will just take me longer than some others to "get over it".

And if he does ask me for advice on how to handle it, i'll tell him whatever I can. it won't be perfect advice since i didn't go through the same situation.

i'm allowed to choose what I do and do not expose myself to. so far, the only point i've seen in this thread is that i should have just ignored what i felt and have been there for him. so, maybe i'm not his best friend anymore then. maybe i'm too emotionally fragile to be anyone's best friend if I can't simply store away what I feel and be there for someone. Please tell me how one can do this. I'd love to learn how.

__________________
"I'm not a vegatarian because I love animals. I'm a vegetarian because I hate plants." -- A. Whitney Brown