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Extremely important trust and communication issues aside (others have made good comments above), is there also a part of this that speaks to something that you want?
You mentioned fantasies involving your SO with others and a strip club "compromise". If there is something that you want to explore, be sure to be honest with yourself about what you want. If your SO agrees, explore away in a way that you are both absolutely comfortable doing. Suppressing true wants/desires can only make resolving other relationship issues more difficult.
Discuss what you each want and expect. Be open and honest. If you are on the same page, it could help make your relationship stronger.
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