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Old 01-10-2008, 04:55 AM   #23 (permalink)
Hain
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Originally Posted by neflyte
I couldn't emotionally handle it. i have absolutely, positively ZERO desire to feel what he's going through again. It happened to me in a similar fashion about a year or so ago, and it still hurts to this day.
So when he asks you for advice on how to deal with this, what do you tell him? "Well I first deny to myself that it happened and try to forget all memory. Then, I back down when my best friend, you, asks for my help and advice in this situation. I never really got over it." YOU are not the one kicking out your SO. HE is. Bite on your lower lip, convince yourself it's a bad dream, and step up. Everything was beautiful and nothing hurt.
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