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Originally Posted by canuckguy
dude he is your bestfriend and you did not want to pull a solid for him? how did you think your going to get involved?
i personally would have went. i would have told him i would not be arguing on his behalf or doing anything other than observing for both of their best interests. i don't think it is wrong what he wanted a third party present, better safe than sorry.
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In any other situation, i'd be by his side without blinking. However, this time I refused because I couldn't emotionally handle it. i have absolutely, positively ZERO desire to feel what he's going through again. It happened to me in a similar fashion about a year or so ago, and it still hurts to this day.
Yes, i'm sure i'll hear responses of "it will always hurt to some degree" and "get over it already". For the former, i'm well aware of that but it doesn't mean i can't actively choose not to experience it if i wish not to. For the latter, give me a 100% workable procedure for "getting over it" and i'll follow it to the T with 120% of my effort. Until that time, stuff it! :P </rant>