IckUber... ugh, I don't envy you at all. I just bought a vehicle and had to wait a week for the title also. I can't imagine what you're going through at the moment.
Anyway, I've been trying to do some research for you... Steve Sweis is registered as the contact for the dealer domain and he lives (or did) there in Oklahoma City...
You should go talk to the bank right away... they may well run the CARFAX report for you. The report will show previous title numbers and states to assist in tracking down the current information.
Sorry I can't help more...