This is a question for the lad's and ladie's of TFP. I hope the embarrassment I feel is not unique and the experience, if not universal, is known to some of you whether male or female. Please share if you have experienced the same.
This has been bothering me only for the past few years (I don't know if it matter's, I'm 36). I can be hot as hell and want to get off, so I'll masturbate, sometimes I am so aroused that I have to hold off on the stimulation from the get go so I don't come right off the bat.
The problem obviously isin't that ^^. The problem is when I'm horny and attempt to masturbate, but no matter what I do to myself, I can't come. My clit just gets irritated and I realize, no amount of stimulation is going to make "it" happen. It is so damn frustrating to have such opposite results with the (seemingly) same set of circumstances.
This wouldn't be a problem except that my hubby is on the road for work alot.
I guess I would most like to know if anyone else has this happen to them, and more to the point, if men experience it too (and are willing enough to share).
I doesn't happen to me very often, but when it does it just makes me want to hit something. Hello, how the hell hard is it to get oneself off?!
Again, please share and let me know I'm not alone or some freak.
Ali