trache, it sounds to me like she checked out of the relationship a long time ago. Maybe she decided you weren't going to marry her soon enough. Maybe she just decided to move on. But from what you're telling me, it sounds like the relationship was on autopilot for her for quite awhile. For her, it was over months ago. From what you've said, you did all you could and should to try to make it work. Obviously you only can share your perspective, so maybe there's something else going on...but, it's time to stop trying to make it work, and move on.
You've already made it clear to her that you're willing to try again - if she changes her mind, she knows where to find you. Also, very good to hear that you aren't letting her push you out of your apartment. You don't need to be walked on by her, and she doesn't need to get away with treating you that way. Unhealthy for both of you.
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