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Dude, you have been paid a visit by the ghost of relationship future, and with the view from my comfy chair, it looks like this is an opportunity for you, not a tragedy. Yes, I know you feel like shit, yes I know you feel empty, yes I know that you don't want to eat, sleep, or be with anyone else right now, and this is all normal. What you don't see is that all the troubles you two were having would most likely escalate in the future after you were married making it far more troublesome to resolve. It would take a LOT of work before any compromise produced the desired results, and I predict that if you somehow manage to stay in the relationship, there would be a large dent in a block wall from all the banging your head would do against it.
In short, I sympathize, but you're getting a good deal here as is. Stick to your list, better YOUR situation, and move on.
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"No laws, no matter how rigidly enforced, can protect a person from their own stupidity." -Me-
"Some people are like Slinkies..... They are not really good for anything, but they still bring a smile to your face when you push them down a flight of stairs." -Unknown-
DAMMIT! -Jack Bauer-
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