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For one thing I would not move out on account of her. If you don't want to move, don't. Even if it means living with her broken up. You are in charge. It sounds like she's the one who can't pay rent. I don't know how she comes to the conclusion that YOU are the irresponsible one.
Maybe its easy for me to say but this relationship sounds like a load of shit you don't need. I would be worried about the state of my relationship anyway if it had trust and intimacy issues like you mention. Since you've been together for so long it will be especially difficult to move on.. but there are other women out there, who won't be so antagonistic. You can't make her want to be with you anyway. And the most likely way to get her back, is to make it look like you are moving on. Don't come across as desperate, she ought to be more worried than you. Women hate it when they break up with a guy who easily moves on and upgrades.
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