Originally Posted by pig

how about "don't go in crazy-go-nuts gangbuster style, flapping your dick down on the dinner table and asking her to stroke it to the tune of auld lange syne?" i would suggest just talking to her and reading her vibe, and perhaps, perhaps, suggest y'all go for a walk or grab coffee or something that could be totally innocuous. with the issues involved here, why not take it a little slower and see where it goes? i can see multiple ways of working around this one. most of them involve treating her like a friend who you might want to get frisky with, and letting things progress at a natural rate...and letting her father see that regardless of what happens, you're treating her like a gentleman.