But if they show no remorse, then there's a chance that you may fall victim to what they have done again. For example: I don't let my dad drive me anywhere anymore, and I always have my wallet and cell on me no matter what. Had he apologized or shown me that he was sorry for doing that to me, I wouldn't have to think twice when he offered to drive. Maybe what I mean is that to me forgiveness is about trust, too. I trust that in the future you'll try to correct your actions. Without that trust being rebuilt, the wound is open.
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