So you're saying you love bondage but you don't like pain or aggression?
I'm kind of the opposite. I'm not really a huge fan of bondage but I really love scratching, biting and choking in bed. I wouldn't say that I like to go as far as needle play, or knife play, etc. But a good amount of pain is amazing at times.
I'm the submissive and he's the dominant in most situations.
But I definitely think it takes time and trust to get to that stage in a sexual relationship. I wouldn't want some random person I met at a bar choking me in bed...
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