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Originally Posted by Ustwo
Assume shes nervous talking to you.
My now wife confessed she was shaking the first time I called her.
Also don't try to impress her with your witty banter on the phone, keep it functional unless she starts to wax poetic.
And above all remember the be a bit aloof aspect. If you seem needy you already blew it.
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I agree all except the last line. Don't "be" anything except yourself.
We've already seen that what this girl (possibly all girls, but...) responds to is honesty. Be honest how nervous you are talking to her. She'll think it's cute, and she'll be flattered and you're good to go. That's really different from seeming needy.