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Originally Posted by ItWasMe
You can accidentally sever a special connection you already have with someone, and it can be damn near impossible to get that back.
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I agree. This has been brought up by men I've had long term relationships several times. I've found that saying "maybe one day in the right situation" worked wonders. I had thoughts about doing it at times, and in frank talks he was unsure he could deal with it as well. But bringing it up and maintaining the fantasy made our sex lives a lot more exciting.
Sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality. Just the other side of the coin for you to ponder.