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could my partner be gay?
hello everybody
I have tried talking to my partner about this but I don't seem to be getting anywhere, he just says no and tells me he loves me.
The problem is this: when we have sex, generally i initiate it, also he doesn't kiss me very often apart from pecking - not very passionate kissing, he rarely goes down yet I do everytime and he doesn't usually finger me - which can be frustrating. He smokes weed a lot and I am starting to feel that he doesn't get 'in the mood' without it - I'm worried he's gay, I even asked him if he found vaginas attractive and he said that to bo honest women's bodies turned him on but he found vaginas a little offputting...not sexy.
All this has got me thinking that yes, I am sure he loves me, but does he fancy me? Could he be gay? I am his first long time partner, I am more experienced than him - but when I feedback my needs nothing seems to get better. He also spends a lot of time smoking weed with a much older divorced man who I never meet...I'm starting to really worry..anybody else had a similar situation? I could just be being insecure I suppose - he sayd he's just lazy...
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