Daniel_

So - chaps of all gender - the thread in the LL made me wonder how many non-Ladies have ever "TOFTT"?

Just in case you missed the original thread, to TOFTT was defined as making the beast with two backs, whilst not really being committed to the deed, in order to satisfy or amuse your SO.

I can't say that I have ever done it because she wanted to but I didn't (let's face it, for most men the worst sex is probably better than none), and the biggest turn on to many men seems to be a woman saying "I'd like to have sex".

What I can confess to in a previous life is having crap sex with her, even though she didn't want it much so that she wouldn't turn round NEXT time I actually wanted it and say "but last time I asked you about sex you said no".

Just shows how twisted and fucked up you can be in a failing marriage.

God, I was an arse.

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