Daniel_

So - chaps of all gender - the thread in the LL made me wonder how many non-Ladies have ever "TOFTT"?

Just in case you missed the original thread, to TOFTT was defined as making the beast with two backs, whilst not really being committed to the deed, in order to satisfy or amuse your SO.

I can't say that I have ever done it because she wanted to but I didn't (let's face it, for most men the worst sex is probably better than none), and the biggest turn on to many men seems to be a woman saying "I'd like to have sex".

What I can confess to in a previous life is having crap sex with her, even though she didn't want it much so that she wouldn't turn round NEXT time I actually wanted it and say "but last time I asked you about sex you said no".

Just shows how twisted and fucked up you can be in a failing marriage.

God, I was an arse.

__________________

╔═════════════════════════════════════════╗
Overhead, the Albatross hangs motionless upon the air,
And deep beneath the rolling waves,
In labyrinths of Coral Caves,
The Echo of a distant time
Comes willowing across the sand;
And everthing is Green and Submarine
╚═════════════════════════════════════════╝

Menoman

Thats more like taking one for the "only one player" on the team though! hehe

I took one for the 'male' team a couple times, had to talk to a fugly bitch so my buddy could bang her hot friend, We went to her place and I pretended lay down and pass out ! It totally worked except she kept rubbing my back with her walrus flipper trying to wake me up.

__________________

Daniel_

The honouable role of wingman?

Hadn't considered that - but surely, a lay is a lay?

As the song says "let me tell you about the worst blow-jb I ever had -it weren't that bad actualy".

How fugly?

Are we talking Rosie O'Donnel, Joan Rivers, or Nancy Reagan here?

__________________

╔═════════════════════════════════════════╗
Overhead, the Albatross hangs motionless upon the air,
And deep beneath the rolling waves,
In labyrinths of Coral Caves,
The Echo of a distant time
Comes willowing across the sand;
And everthing is Green and Submarine
╚═════════════════════════════════════════╝

Willravel

Take one for the team with my SO? Shit yes, if it's possible I'm sure I'd do it.

Taking one as a wing man? I dunno, it depends on the situation. If I owe the guy one, and the woman is tolerable, then I suppose.

dlish

never done it. been asked a few times. declined every time

__________________
An injustice anywhere, is an injustice everywhere

I always sign my facebook comments with ()()===========(}. Does that make me gay?
- Filthy

analog

I jumped on a grenade for a friend once. He had sex with the chick he wanted, and I narrowly escaped having sex with her hefty friend. She wanted it, I pretended to be really religious. She did have huge (like E size) breasts, so I did allow things to progress far enough to get a handful of them just for the experience, but I was in no way turned on by her. To begin with, I'm not a hookup guy- I need some sort of emotional investment. It's not just that she was fat (and I'm not being mean, folks, fat is fat. I've been fat. You either own up to the word or you're kidding yourself), she wasn't really a nice person in general. She talked shit about people she claimed were friends. I don't abide that kind of nonsense.

Strange Famous

um yeah...

because sex with someone who I hold in contempt is... well, all that ever happens to me anyway.

And I dont mean to sound arrogant, I am sure many of them feel the same way about me.

__________________
"Do not tell lies, and do not do what you hate,
for all things are plain in the sight of Heaven. For nothing
hidden will not become manifest, and nothing covered will remain
without being uncovered."

The Gospel of Thomas

Blackthorn

For the record in the context of the original question I would always be willing to take one for the team... as a wingman I have done my part but only on a couple of occasions and only once did it work out as a "sealed deal". Even at that it wasn't bad because sex like pizza is still pretty good even if it's bad!

__________________
What are you willing to give up in order to get what you want?

Daniel_

Shit! If everyone that held me in contempt took me to bed, work would be more interesting.

__________________

╔═════════════════════════════════════════╗
Overhead, the Albatross hangs motionless upon the air,
And deep beneath the rolling waves,
In labyrinths of Coral Caves,
The Echo of a distant time
Comes willowing across the sand;
And everthing is Green and Submarine
╚═════════════════════════════════════════╝

Redlemon

I have not fucked my SO when not into it, but I'm generally glad to provide finger or tongue stimulation for her at those times (unless I am feeling sick or completely exhausted).

__________________
I can't read your signature. Sorry.

Bear Cub

I have done it both with an SO, and as a wingman. I'm just the gift that keeps on giving.

Ustwo

Just think how long my tfp dance card would be

__________________
Agents of the enemies who hold office in our own government, who attempt to eliminate our "freedoms" and our "right to know" are posting among us, I fear.....on this very forum. - host

Obama - Know a Man by the friends he keeps.

Menoman

Oh hell dude, it was rosie sized bigness, and even rosie is cuter than this broad was. I was very fearful I wouldn't find a way out of it, I had a backup plan of just pretending I passed out in the middle of getting her undressed.

__________________

Toaster126

Women I have encountered tend to take anything close to refusal of sex as an extreme attack. This hasn't stopped me from not having sex when I didn't want to have sex, though. If I feel like helping them out manually or whatever that's fine, and I will, but I won't if I don't, and I don't expect a girl to do that either.

That being said, if the frequency of fucking has got you bothered, it's time to talk about it and resolve it in some way, decide you don't care enough, or find someone else. It's that important.

__________________
"The question isn't who is going to let me, it's who is going to stop me." (Ayn Rand)
"The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers." (M. Scott Peck)