My sex drive appears to be higher and less variable than ktspktsp's, so I "take one" whenever I can, even if I'm not in the mood. I don't generally orgasm with him unless it's during oral sex (fairly rare), so basically, when he feels like doing it, we have sex and he comes. So I guess it's always "one for the team," though I do feel pleasure just from the act of being intimate with him.
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