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Originally Posted by Menoman
The kind of jerk they want is the kind they find a challenge, ya gotta be a jerk by ignoring them. They love to have a challenge in getting the one that is 'too confident for them'
It's not so much a 'jerk' I don't think, just guys who throw around alot of confidence, and act like they aren't interested in them.
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You're right, it is about confidence. I disagree about ignoring them, it's more about not coming across as needy and desperate.
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Originally Posted by Hyacinthe
The reasons these 'nice' guys are at home all alone is because they're not really nice guys. So often these guys say how 'nice' they are and how they've done this and this and that for girl A and yet she still doesn't see them as a romantic option. If they were truly nice guys they would be doing it to be nice not in the hopes that some day the girl is going to turn around and realise she's subconciously been in love with them for the past 5 years and never noticed.
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Another observation I've made is that the reason "nice guys" finish last is that they think that being a nice guy is all that matters, and therefore it's all they have. If you're pleasant, courteous, whatever, you're doing well, but if you don't back it up with confidence and an interesting personality, you've got nothing.