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Originally Posted by Infinite_Loser
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Yes, I'd define that as being a player. Knowingly going out on dates with other people while being physically involved with someone else(s) seems wrong to me. I'm be more concerned that you DON'T. The underlying assumption (The one which most people hold) of going out on a date with someone is that you're looking for an exclusive relationship. It's hard to take someone seriously who is 'dating' a group of people. All this casual dating crap is, IMO, a nice little euphemism for trying to garner the benefits of being in a relationship from as many people as possible without actually being confined to any relationship. Correct me if I'm wrong.
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Hate to break it to 'ya...but from my experience you are in a minority in this understanding of Dating. Most people have multiple friends of the opposite sex they hang out with, but not all are a target of exclusive relationship searches. I can be on a date with a friend, and still flirt with someone I meet, just as she can....hell, sometimes thats half the point of the date in the first place.