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Like Ustwo say misery may love company and it should be dealt with professionaly rather than with supposition. Don't play hero if you are not one. You can't help her if you can't help yourself. Infact I would think you are stopping her from getting help because you been there filling in her blanks she'll think its all the help she's needs, or worst that she'll place it on you so later on if you are not there she'll have someone to blame etc. Unless you are able to play the roll of her emotional crutches for life by all means. Its hard to walk away from your love ones in these situations but its set out for them to grow so let her grow, you can give her your support( getting help etc.) but you cant help her if she's not willing to help herself.
I'm getting overly dramatic...I suppose spending the last few days with tv series does this to you.
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