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You seem like a nice guy, Prince. You see her life going downhill and you want to help her, and you're careful not to trip over any wires while at it. When I read your first post, I first thought that the two of you were in your early 20s. I'm surprised that someone of her age would think that going out drinking every night is OK. It's not, and especially so if you're married.
I don't blame you for not wanting to go to the bars with her. Contrary to what another user said - she's the one who's trying to get you to conform to her views of entertainment, not the other way around. There are so many other things that you would be willing to do, but all she wants to do is hit the bars. Many people that are into the bar scene just lack intelligence and sophistication, but in her case, I think it's more like that she wants to escape her home life and I'm sorry to say, but she has mostly likely been cheating on you. There are so many red flags in your post, and the heightened sexual aggression and experimentation screams "I've been having one-night stands and need more."
I know you care about her a lot, but I don't think this relationship will work out. She has drifted away from you. In a few years, she might grow up and be ready to settle down, but you deserve better than this. You're only going to be miserable if you stay with her, and it's going to get worse before it gets better, if it ever does.
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