All women are liars and you are everything you imagine yourself to be.
Gotta be that. What else would explain all the ugly-ass poor men getting married every day?
I've got a couple novel ideas...
Maybe the type of women you pursue (due to conditioning and social pressures) truly are interested in those qualities in men and you wouldn't give two seconds out of your day to the women who aren't.
or...
Maybe these ideal qualities that we look for in men are so difficult to find that we figure as long as we're settling we might as well settle for the rich, handsome guy.
I dunno, those are just off the top of my head and might explain your observations.
But really, rich, good-looking men aren't like weeds sprouting up everywhere. At some time you guys have to account for the fact that regular guys are hooking up all the time. Just because it doesn't happen to you, doesn't necessarily correlate with some kind of insurmountable universal phenomena you that you are powerless against.
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