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Originally Posted by Hyacinthe
I'm guessing you don't know anyone that has ever been a victim of sexual abuse because some of the most scarring memories are the ones in which you enjoy it or you don't fight because you can't imagine life being any other way.
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Oh... I know one person.
*Hint hint, wink wink*
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If you're forced you can say "well I didn't want it" you're left with less guilt, but when it's a situation when you only realise afterwards that it's not something you were equipped to decide it's so much worse. You blame yourself as much if not more then the person who took advantage of you.
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Once again, fundamentally speaking, there's no difference between a 15 year old having sex with a 13 year old and a 25 year old having sex with a 13 year old. Unfortunately society has decided that anyone under a certain age can't make informed decisions (Even though this is blatantly false) and, as a result, ostracizes anyone who bucks what's considered 'normal' (Boy, this suuure sounds familiar). Apparently no one remembers the days when young girls would be married and have kids by 14/15 years old...
Remember, folks, age is but a number. Having sex with someone who doesn't want to have sex with you is wrong. Having sex with someone who wants to have sex with you isn't (Or, at least, that's the way it should be).
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There's a reason sex with a child is classified as Statuatory Rape.
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Yes, because the law has arbitrarily deemed that people under a certain age are incapable of making informed decisions. Outside of "Because it's the law" what reasons can you-- Or anyone-- Find as to why it's 'wrong' if both parties agree?