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Originally Posted by bubbaspike
My advice would be to contact the women and be a part of the kids
life.I personaly would always regret it if I didn't.
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As a donor, that's generally frowned upon-donors relinquish all claims to parenthood. Since this was a mix-up, though, the best thing is to seek a lawyer who's got some knowledge in this area.
It should be the sperm bank's place to contact the woman who used their services and explain to her that her anonymous choice was not used.
Women use these services because either their spouse could not produce kids or she's single and wanted kids; either way he should NOT do his own contacting. If there's a dad in the picture, he would do much more harm than good.