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I know it's not what you meant, but this seems to imply that anyone who's at home all alone is not a nice guy.
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Oops! I most definitely did not intend to imply that in any way shape or form. Alot of my male friends are genuinely nice guys and are single. I just hate the way you read these things and because the guy remembered that she liked that perfume or did her a favour she's expected to jump into bed with him.
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I am a "nice guy" because I am simply a nice guy.The difference is that I am also in the most successful relationship I have ever been in. I didn't want to be with the woman who wanted to be with the asshole, that's not who I am, and I don't want to be with somebody who thinks they deserve to be treated poorly. It really is that simple.
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Exactly! You're a genuinely nice guy whether you're going to get sex out of it or not. You're not manipulating her to get something out of it it's just actually who you are.
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"My boyfriend doesn't appreciate me"
"My boyfriend is an asshole"
"Why is he doing this?"
I'm always wondering, "why the hell did you start dating him then"?
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You're obviously more diplomatic then me cause I would say it. I don't know why people get into relationships where they're treated badly, I just don't understand it at all. But I look at it like this - do you want to be in a relationship with someone like that? Who is going to let you get away with all kinds of shit and never have the self respect to pull you up about it? Do you want a partner or a doormat?
I know which one I'm looking for and I'm not going to settle for anything less even if it means I have a long wait.