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Originally Posted by ratbastid
That spectrum he lays out is bullshit. It's not "nice guy---middle ground---jerk". A better spectrum (if you absolutely have to think of it as a spectrum) would be:
"emotionally immature wuss---confident grown man---socially immature asshole".
Be a confident grown man. Grow up and don't be a wuss or an asshole. And sensitivity and lovability have NOTHING to do with the wuss-to-asshole spectrum. I know plenty of sensitive, lovable assholes.
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Leave it to 'Bastid, he's right on. 
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