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Originally Posted by Prince
Thank you for your replies. I appreciate any and all advice.
Ustwo - I hear you about going with her, but, I gotta get up at 5:45 am just so I can make it to class on time... I don't think she would limit her going out to the weekends. I think it would work out a couple of times but I think in the long-term her co-workers would start seeing me as a bit of an ass; I'm not really talkative in booze-enriched company, I tend to mostly stare at the band and count the minutes. Although I guess I don't really care much about what they think...
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It doesn't matter what her single co-workers think, it does matter what your wife thinks. You really REALLY need to communicate to her what you are feeling/thinking here, asap.
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Oh, and that couple we befriended that moved out of town... She's going out of town soon for an overnight stay at their place to see the wife (they were co-workers and good friends). Some other co-workers are going too, to booze it up of course. Am I excited? Fuck no. I'll be in class.
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This to me has big ugly red flags attached. Under the circumstances is a recipe for a little extramarital sex.
I hope it all works out, but you seem set in your desires, her in hers, and at best I see a major fight in your future, at worst I see you parting ways.