Thank you for your replies. I appreciate any and all advice.
Ustwo - I hear you about going with her, but, I gotta get up at 5:45 am just so I can make it to class on time... I don't think she would limit her going out to the weekends. I think it would work out a couple of times but I think in the long-term her co-workers would start seeing me as a bit of an ass; I'm not really talkative in booze-enriched company, I tend to mostly stare at the band and count the minutes. Although I guess I don't really care much about what they think...
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Originally Posted by Cynosure
How young were you two when you got married?
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She was about 23, I was around 26. We got married 4 and a half years ago. It's hard to say whether she got to sew her wild oats in her college days. She certainly drank and I think smoked some pot, and did shrooms on occasion - shit that I'd never do without a gun to my head - but she wasn't active sexually.
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How many of these friends/co-workers of your wife are single? Any of them recently separated or divorced?
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They're all single, which probably is why they spend so much time in the bar. There was a married couple that we actually both liked hanging around, but they moved out of town. There was still booze involved on every occasion but at least they were nice people, with kids and stuff, so they didn't do the bar scene either.
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Your wife is an extrovert, right? And are you an introvert?
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I wouldn't call her an extrovert per se, but I am far more introverted. I like company and conversation when it interests me. As in, I like to talk to people who have more to contribute than "damn that bitch has a great ass". My wife was always the same way, which is why this all confuses me.
Oh, and that couple we befriended that moved out of town... She's going out of town soon for an overnight stay at their place to see the wife (they were co-workers and good friends). Some other co-workers are going too, to booze it up of course. Am I excited? Fuck no. I'll be in class.