It's been said already, but yes breathing is good. You realize some of your decisions weren't the best. To me that's the first step. Now you need to start making what to you are the right decisions. If you aren't happy then start changing that. Communication is a key to any relationship, even if you don't want to be in it right now. And school is a great goal, but right after a child might not be possible. Waiting for things to fix themselves, or your ex to come back isn't going to change the situation you are in. Positive thoughts also help. Finding something that gets you out of the house, brings in some money, and that you enjoy doing would be good.
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Cain: I know what you're doing. I've lead troops into battle before.
DG: And, how am I doing?
Cain: Well, there's less *hugging* when I do it
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