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A couple of my earlier sexual experiences were with girls who had boyfriends. In the end, I was able to get away from it without any consequences except for guilt. My reasoning at the time was that it's the person in the relationships responsibility to stay true to their own relationships. If they were going to go after me, I wasn't going to get in their way. As other people have said, 'a relationship is between two people' and not three, so I figured it wasn't my responsibility.
Now I'm not so sure. I definitely think it's morally wrong, but I'm not sure if I would do it again. I think it's definitely a 'no go' if you have any connection to the boyfriend or if you are actually close to the girl. If anything happens, that relationship is going to change. You also have to consider how much of her wants you, and how much of her wants out of the relationship...if she was all about you, wouldn't she just end it?
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